Archive for August, 2007

Sissy / Wussy behaviour

‘There is nothing in this world called the truth, everything depends on the perspective!’ This is the universal rule. Likewise with women too, there is nothing that is called the perfect thing to do, everything depends on the situation, the person concerned, the timing, the place etc. So something might work at a particular situation, might not work at another, so it doesn’t mean that you have made a mistake.
I insisted on practice in my previous post just to lay emphasis that once you have good exposure, you can read Women within seconds. So you would know by instinct the answers for the questions that might occur to you… like what, when, how etc.

There are certain things that are globally true to turn-off a woman, things when said and done portray you as a needy guy, who is craving for attention from women, a guy who has always been a loser.

1) Kissing her ass too early
This shows you as a person who has never been with women all your lives, and you are god damn desperate to have her. Don’t agree with her on whatever she says even though you don’t approve of it. Be the normal you; treat her like another friend of yours.
a) Going after her
b) Accepting everything she says
c) Being very nice to her
d) Getting her gifts and spending lots of money
On the whole being really uninteresting! A strict NO to them.

2) Bitching about women or Arguing for the sake of it
Another mad activity men do, just for the sake of argument saying that women suck etc. remember everyone wants love, no one can live without it. Don’t try to act smart saying women are incapable creatures. Don’t argue just to show your superiority over her. Remember women are smart, they can easily evaluate you. She will easily understand that you are trying to build your confidence by downsizing her. Meaning you are not good enough, you are trying to fake-it.

3) Talking about how great you have been with women
A loser guys method. Beating their own drums saying how many girlfriends they have had in their past. Give me a break, why would I care what shit you did in the past. Stop making up stories just to show yourself as a macho in front of her.

4) Getting upset easily
If little things are going to be taken to heart, and you are gonna be upset, am sorry you will have to change. When with women, there is always a lot of sarcasm in the air. She wouldn’t actually mean to hurt you.

5) Can’t make your own decisions
You can’t make decisions, implies you are not good enough to lead her. It doesn’t mean that it’s your say always. Give her a chance, if she is going to say ‘Your wish’ make a quick decision, it’s your call now. Don’t respond to that saying ‘its ok, you tell what you wanna do’ etc.

6) Doing things to get noticed
This again goes with point three, don’t overdo. If someone has a little doubt that you are trying hard, it means you really are.

Be chilled out at all times, don’t worry about anything. And trust me, women can easily evaluate men, so if you are trying to cheat her, she will surely get a hint and will take you for a ride. And secondly you can’t progress well without actually caring for her, you can’t fake it. You are not worthy enough to have a woman if you aren’t serious about it. Subtle hints are well noted by them. Watch out.

Cheers,
Natty Boy

August 27, 2007 at 5:13 pm 1 comment