Comments on: Making Conversations http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/ Tue, 10 Feb 2009 12:16:03 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Mike http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-392 Mike Mon, 17 Nov 2008 04:00:30 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-392 Halo' am in2 a distance relationship dt is giving me headache & dis is d 5th month, d prblm am havin wt my gurlfriend is abt her comin 2 visit me in skul eachtym i invite her we alwaz had a quarel just bcos she doesnt wnt 2 come. I believ she loves me bt i av doubt abt us cos she kip on tellin me next year & i dnt knw hw we can cope in a distance relationship wtout seein eachoder ocasionaly, pls am so confuse i need ur advice cos am nt ready 2 break nw cos am madly in luv wt her nw. Thank U. Halo’ am in2 a distance relationship dt is giving me headache & dis is d 5th month, d prblm am havin wt my gurlfriend is abt her comin 2 visit me in skul eachtym i invite her we alwaz had a quarel just bcos she doesnt wnt 2 come. I believ she loves me bt i av doubt abt us cos she kip on tellin me next year & i dnt knw hw we can cope in a distance relationship wtout seein eachoder ocasionaly, pls am so confuse i need ur advice cos am nt ready 2 break nw cos am madly in luv wt her nw. Thank U.

]]> By: Natty Boy http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-106 Natty Boy Sat, 03 Nov 2007 17:44:42 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-106 first of all like i always say, never work on breaking a relationship.. u don't do this to someone who has worked to get her.. never ever tamper with a person's relationship.. what you do to someone, someone might do to you.. and about she flirting with you, thats pretty common.. it doesn't mean she is gonna dump him and come with you. first of all like i always say, never work on breaking a relationship.. u don’t do this to someone who has worked to get her.. never ever tamper with a person’s relationship.. what you do to someone, someone might do to you..
and about she flirting with you, thats pretty common.. it doesn’t mean she is gonna dump him and come with you.

]]> By: nickhil khanna http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-102 nickhil khanna Tue, 30 Oct 2007 20:08:42 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-102 what do u do if u really like this girl whos in a realationship with a guy who will beat u up if u really talk to her, u end up talking to her alot in secret and u flirt with her as she ose with u. she might like u but u dont know how do u get the girl to dump her boyfriend and go for you what do u do if u really like this girl whos in a realationship with a guy who will beat u up if u really talk to her, u end up talking to her alot in secret and u flirt with her as she ose with u. she might like u but u dont know how do u get the girl to dump her boyfriend and go for you

]]> By: tandeep http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-58 tandeep Sat, 12 May 2007 18:58:58 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-58 well wriiten article acharya .. but i dnt agree on all the aspects of conversations tat u've mentioned.. the aspect of powerful personality... now this is not every girl's cup of tea.. it can b quite intimidating to most women.. its like how beautiful women intimidate us blokes.. n my dear acharya.. women analyse a lot.. esp when they r interested in u.. n even when the conversation is gng on they analyse.. n sometimes they go overboard.. n i'm not 2 sure abt the non accomodatin part either.. if u wont b there 4 her y will she even b interested.. again this a double edged sword.. can go either way!! n lastly abt talkin politics n religion.. if u dont dwell on such topics atleast here n there how will she know tat theres actually some neurons workin in tat skull of urs.. agreed avoid it but say if it does come up do have a say.. who knws she mite b interested in tat stuff.. but wateva it is theres one topic v guys shud avoid.. cars n bikes.. i dnt knw ne woman whos interested in talkin abt this topic.. n guys when they r together sometimes jus start n dnt knw when to stop.. k enuff of the minuses... for the pluses... ur absolutly spot on abt women testin men.. they do it unconsciously.. its hardwired in2 them... theres a wonderful article i read abt this in reader's digest.. i think its in the feb issue.. it talks ab thow this woman who sees how dolphins r trained in the zoo n applies the same principles on her husband.. n it works.. lol.. but then in the end the hubby turns the tables.. defntly an interstin read.. n yeah sarcasm can b a turn off 4 many women.. but sometimes if u can b funny n sarcastic.. tats def a plus.. n finally i end this long comment (sorry acharya.. cudnt stop!! ;-) ) .. follow the C2D principle.. cooperate to dominate.. it works!! cheers to all of u.. n boy ur blog sure is becomin a hot bed of discussion.. nest time try cars.. n c how many go on abt tat.. well wriiten article acharya .. but i dnt agree on all the aspects of conversations tat u’ve mentioned..
the aspect of powerful personality… now this is not every girl’s cup of tea.. it can b quite intimidating to most women.. its like how beautiful women intimidate us blokes..
n my dear acharya.. women analyse a lot.. esp when they r interested in u.. n even when the conversation is gng on they analyse.. n sometimes they go overboard.. n i’m not 2 sure abt the non accomodatin part either.. if u wont b there 4 her y will she even b interested.. again this a double edged sword.. can go either way!!
n lastly abt talkin politics n religion.. if u dont dwell on such topics atleast here n there how will she know tat theres actually some neurons workin in tat skull of urs.. agreed avoid it but say if it does come up do have a say.. who knws she mite b interested in tat stuff.. but wateva it is theres one topic v guys shud avoid.. cars n bikes.. i dnt knw ne woman whos interested in talkin abt this topic.. n guys when they r together sometimes jus start n dnt knw when to stop..
k enuff of the minuses… for the pluses… ur absolutly spot on abt women testin men.. they do it unconsciously.. its hardwired in2 them… theres a wonderful article i read abt this in reader’s digest.. i think its in the feb issue.. it talks ab thow this woman who sees how dolphins r trained in the zoo n applies the same principles on her husband.. n it works.. lol.. but then in the end the hubby turns the tables.. defntly an interstin read..
n yeah sarcasm can b a turn off 4 many women.. but sometimes if u can b funny n sarcastic.. tats def a plus..
n finally i end this long comment (sorry acharya.. cudnt stop!! ;-) ) .. follow the C2D principle.. cooperate to dominate.. it works!!
cheers to all of u.. n boy ur blog sure is becomin a hot bed of discussion.. nest time try cars.. n c how many go on abt tat..

]]> By: prashanth http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-57 prashanth Fri, 11 May 2007 09:46:51 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-57 Bingo acharya!guess wat u speak is ntn but the TRUTH(caps used on purpose).. N i guess most of u here r jus interested in relationships rather than actually seekin out for the rit women or men.Get out of the relationship rut n in2 some meetin ppl so tat u hav somethin better to actually discuss rather than actually talk bout how a gal must react wen they r out for the 115th time or somethin! N btw guess most of u kno the difference between attraction n affection i guess... Its like knowin to drive a car n knowin to change gears. While knowin to drive a car satisfies knowin to change the gear as well whereas the latter need not imply the former.Hence it is more important in keepin a gal more attracted rather than makin her affectionate.Btw wen attraction happens everythin else is whole implied n everythin takes care of itself Bingo acharya!guess wat u speak is ntn but the TRUTH(caps used on purpose)..
N i guess most of u here r jus interested in relationships rather than actually seekin out for the rit women or men.Get out of the relationship rut n in2 some meetin ppl so tat u hav somethin better to actually discuss rather than actually talk bout how a gal must react wen they r out for the 115th time or somethin!
N btw guess most of u kno the difference between attraction n affection i guess… Its like knowin to drive a car n knowin to change gears. While knowin to drive a car satisfies knowin to change the gear as well whereas the latter need not imply the former.Hence it is more important in keepin a gal more attracted rather than makin her affectionate.Btw wen attraction happens everythin else is whole implied n everythin takes care of itself

]]> By: bhavana http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-56 bhavana Fri, 11 May 2007 06:22:43 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-56 and uhm also, if you'v been with someone long enough for the "wuss" in you to be finally exposed and that girl does really like you, i think to an extent she would try to help you with your "wussness" .lol. instead of upping and running once things get a little rocky. :-) and uhm also, if you’v been with someone long enough for the “wuss” in you to be finally exposed and that girl does really like you, i think to an extent she would try to help you with your “wussness” .lol. instead of upping and running once things get a little rocky. :-)

]]> By: bhavana http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-55 bhavana Fri, 11 May 2007 06:15:52 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-55 uhm. should i be feeling the sarcasm hitting me in waves or you'r just making a joke or this is some secret rule you havent written about on how to react to girls?! lol . uhm. should i be feeling the sarcasm hitting me in waves or you’r just making a joke or this is some secret rule you havent written about on how to react to girls?! lol .

]]> By: Natty Boy http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-53 Natty Boy Thu, 10 May 2007 19:44:38 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-53 Gentlemen, PROUDLY PRESENTING A BETTER ACHARYA... PLEASE PUT YOUR HANDS TOGETHER TO WELCOME.. 'BHAVANA!' (Clap your hands gentlemen) But this acharya, even after dating so many women hasn't figured out that women lose interest once the 'wuss' in the man is exposed! .... i am not clapping @atul dude, you seem to contradict yourself.. obviously when you say the right things, and take her off.. you break the existing relationship... but if you dint know about the relationship before its acceptable... women will definitely lose interest if guy comes out as 'shallow'. at any point of time, even if she is totally into him. as long as you be a man, things are fine.. you kiss her ass, you screw things! Gentlemen, PROUDLY PRESENTING A BETTER ACHARYA… PLEASE PUT YOUR HANDS TOGETHER TO WELCOME.. ‘BHAVANA!’ (Clap your hands gentlemen) But this acharya, even after dating so many women hasn’t figured out that women lose interest once the ‘wuss’ in the man is exposed! …. i am not clapping

@atul
dude, you seem to contradict yourself.. obviously when you say the right things, and take her off.. you break the existing relationship… but if you dint know about the relationship before its acceptable…

women will definitely lose interest if guy comes out as ’shallow’. at any point of time, even if she is totally into him. as long as you be a man, things are fine.. you kiss her ass, you screw things!

]]> By: Atul http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-46 Atul Wed, 09 May 2007 15:47:59 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-46 @natty "man" i dont agree with this "losing interest" thing man.. maybe if it was a small crush or something she would never try going the distance. but if a girl truly likes u n if she IS makin all the moves then i guess its just a question of whether u like her or not! if you do then do the obvious...! n ya btw nobody tries to break a reletionship! you just arrive,say the right things n wait for the inevitable to happen!:) @natty “man”
i dont agree with this “losing interest” thing man.. maybe if it was a small crush or something she would never try going the distance. but if a girl truly likes u n if she IS makin all the moves then i guess its just a question of whether u like her or not! if you do then do the obvious…!

n ya btw nobody tries to break a reletionship! you just arrive,say the right things n wait for the inevitable to happen!:)

]]> By: bhavana http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-45 bhavana Wed, 09 May 2007 15:14:59 +0000 http://asktheacharya.wordpress.com/2007/05/04/making-conversations/#comment-45 well , if some girl is totally into you , it would mean , she already knows the real you..well atleast to an extent. lol. and there isnt such a thing as the perfect personality. perfection does'nt exist. it's only about how perfect you are for each other. :-) well , if some girl is totally into you , it would mean , she already knows the real you..well atleast to an extent. lol. and there isnt such a thing as the perfect personality. perfection does’nt exist. it’s only about how perfect you are for each other. :-)

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