Making Conversations

 

Lots of expectations for the new post I guess, so I thought I will talk about making conversations with women which is the next important thing. To those who have not read the previous post, please read it before you proceed with this. Attitude comes first which when finely tuned puts the rest in place. Once it is mastered, you will know how to proceed with things.

Perhaps Jimi Hendrix was right when he made ‘Foxy Lady’. Women always keep testing men. They don’t realize that they are doing this, but they do it. And if you don’t happen to answer in the ‘correct’ way, they end up not feeling ‘it’ for you. Their tests are very deceptive. You must fall under the radar.

Don’t think too much, too much is too bad
Every guy makes the big mistake thinking about the consequences. Don’t keep thinking what she would have thought of me, did I make a mistake? Was she hurt in the bargain? Will she ever going to talk to me again? Have I said the right thing? Did I go overboard today? These are things which you needn’t pay a lot of attention to. Women don’t think about you, they don’t analyze things. They feel it or they don’t.

If you happen to have the powerful personality, a good conversation happens automatically. You would know what to do, when to do, how to do the necessary things. Make an interesting intelligent conversation, try to be as funny as possible, and don’t think too much about what you have said. Be a little rude at times, treat her like a bratty little sister and not like a spectacle, with utmost care (remove her from that lofty position). Be dominant at the same time don’t be manipulative.
Be a ‘cockatoo’ young man, who is really very funny.
Manly, humorous, unpredictable and confident are the traits of the ‘Real’ Man. Don’t ever come across as accommodative. You need not adjust yourself to impress her. So your conversation happens such that it proves you have the required qualities.

Spontaneity wins!
This fact must be hammered into your heads. You don’t pick up women, you meet them. So there is nothing called the pick-up lines. You make them feel chemistry. The best way to do this is by being the unpredictable. It involves a little teasing, complimenting, very very little bragging (with sarcasm pertaining to the situation), and super sarcastic yet friendly ad-libs. Also give her a little time to react, you don’t keep talking. Don’t give her the feeling of listening to the radio.
But everything said and done must be spontaneous.

Like I already said, confidence is the sexiest trait in man. You shouldn’t portray yourself as insecure. Don’t talk about yourself. No preening! Make her talk about her; women always love to talk about themselves. Ask her about her childhood, she would walk on air. Confident men never swash, they don’t talk about their greatness, the high paying job they have, the celebrities they know etc… Don’t ever try to convince a woman to like you, it doesn’t happen at all. Don’t even attempt telling good things about you so that she is convinced that you’re the best one she could have ever asked for. NO!

NO Negativity!
Negativity has got serious consequences. As mentioned in the previous post, you always need to be positive, never worry about the results whatsoever. Avoid thoughts and situations where you might think ‘I may not get her’. Don’t think too much. Just move on, have fun. Your topics of discussion should also not have things that are negative. For example, don’t talk about an interesting theft that happened in your neighborhood, however interesting it might be. A lot of men make these mistakes, the girl might enjoy it but in the end it isn’t going to be of any use to her knowing about the theft or a mysterious murder. No issue with a negative theme!
Don’t talk about religion, or politics. They usually can end up in contradictory views and you might end up fighting for nothing. If you change side and support her argument, you end up showing yourself as an ass kisser.

Making conversations with women is really very important. This is the deciding factor of any relationship. If you happen to come out as an interesting person, she would want more of you. And what will make you come out as interesting?
Pretty simple, what is it that makes a movie interesting, the unpredictability! Do what is not expected out of you and see what happens.

Cheers,
Natty Boy