Attitude, the Killer

The mind set is the first and foremost thing that needs to be perfect. When you approach a woman, you should always be in a positive frame of mind. Let your confidence level be high. Dress well, use a good deo (no bad odor) etc. these little things actually will help you enhance your confidence. And confidence is the Sexiest trait in man! It shows that you are not easily intimidated by her. It creates attraction. And Attraction is not a choice.

You must ERASE the fact that women are some kind of a goal that you need to achieve. You always tend to keep women in those lofty positions, come on man. They are humans too… they talk the same way like you… they live a life like you.
Even a woman like a man puts in a lot of time for her final outfit. A haircut, facial, then make-up, thinking of what to wear for long, then wear it to perfection for hours on end. Why would she do all this? To look good in front of a mirror? Obviously not! If no guy bothers to look at her, what a blow to her ego it would be. About ten to fifteen man hours go wasted! She wants to get noticed too! You are the prize; she must always work to ensure that you are interested in her. It’s not the other way.

Live for the present!
Women always like men who live for the present. Maan, it’s a Present! Don’t waste it. What men usually do is once they start talking, they start dreaming. They start thinking what his friends would say if they happen to see him with her. What a Macho he would be.
See again all this because you always put a woman on a pedestal. If you happen to watch the film Hitch, you can see for yourself how Albert Brenneman starts dreaming in front of Allegra Cole and the date doctor yells at him and asks him to be present in the room.

Always try to start of conversations first, you don’t pick up women. You meet them. So develop an attitude to try and start a conversation first. Let her prove her worth, let her show that she is really an interesting person. You are not going out with her only because she is good-looking. She needs to impress you first. Pal, for how long can looks be a source of attraction? You surely are going to get bored with a dumb-ass.

Fear of rejection.
Most men don’t even make an attempt to try because they fear rejection. They think the girl might slap him, embarrassing him in front of others. Dealing with this problem is again really important; again I tell you women aren’t any superior to you. They are also human, they have emotions too and they will surely reciprocate.

And the most important thing is looks don’t matter as long as you have a powerful personality. Women can’t resist being attracted to you. They have been waiting all their lives to meet ‘The man’ who not only creates attraction, but has got the powerful personality to make it last. They have been chased by a lot of losers, who kiss their asses often. They don’t want ass lickers; they want the real man, who can lead them. To whom they can hand over themselves, because he has got the power to lead them. Groom yourself and see the change around!

Cheers,
Natty Boy